Dr. Judith Gerhart, CFP
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst 
Women's Health
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Wednesday, July 16th, 2008
At the same time, the common lack of understanding on how to handle or manage our money story only complicates matters.
Our money story takes us down even further and our lack of understanding about how to manage and or manifest money. I have a very simple example of a money story I heard today from [...]
Inner Game of Wealth
Monday, July 14th, 2008
The panic of suddenly being alone.
Do you see any patterns around money? Did you expect your partner to provide for you or did you come from a family where women took over for men who didn’t want to control money? I know I did this and I did it so I could have control [...]
Money Stories
Friday, July 11th, 2008
The easiest way to build self-esteem
The other morning I attended a women’s networking meeting…..
The group’s focus was female entrepreneurship, and the room was filled with an eclectic mix of married, divorced, widowed and single women. Many were trying to start a business while at the same time as trying to pull their lives together. I [...]
Money & Self Esteem
Wednesday, July 9th, 2008
There is no such thing as a painless divorce - unless it wasn’t much of a marriage to begin with.
How I wish I had this expression posted on my refrigerator as I went through the ups and downs of relief and disbelief of my divorce. The initial period of shock lets you build up the [...]
Dealing with the Emotional Rollercoaster of Divorce
Friday, May 30th, 2008
Although the basic emotional stages of divorce are essentially the same for both men and women, there are practical differences in the recovery period and these differences are mainly rooted in cultural habits.
North American society has undergone a quiet revolution. Most important has been the economic independence of women.
In the 1940’s only one in seven [...]
Money Issues and Divorce
Thursday, May 29th, 2008
Coping with the accompanying money issues
Money issues, particularly at this time, are a challenge.
Managing a home…
taking a job…
learning to handle finances…
especially when throughout the marriage you’ve been told this is not your skill set-all these things become daunting tasks. As expected, this stress is compounded by the emotional chaos in your life.
It’s critical to have [...]
How did you get into this Mess? My insight into Reasons for Divorce
Friday, May 23rd, 2008
You may not realize it at first, but the time bomb for financial crisis sets early in a relationship, often as soon as two people meet.
Lets step backs a minute to understand this truth. You marry for all the obvious reasons you look to your partner for stability, warmth, ambition, sensitivity, success, money, and [...]
Purpose of Divorce My Way
Wednesday, May 21st, 2008
This started as a result of a dream I had in December of 2001. My site is directed towards supporting women and men in money matters related to separation or divorce.
Contact me if you live in Southern California and need or know someone who needs a divorce financial planner.
Why “Divorce My Way”?
Thursday, May 15th, 2008
Women often have been raised to not think about money and financial matters. They have been told nothing about money and finances or possibly that their spouses will take care of the money and finances.
Because the fact is, often women are left with the entire responsibility of managing family resources with very little training amd [...]
Six Lessons for A Happier Life
Wednesday, May 7th, 2008
The cover article of the March 2008 issue of Ode is “The Art of Happiness,” an interview with French psychiatrist Christophe Andre.
Andre has made a name for himself through his books, two of which are “How to Lead a Happy Life” and “The Art of Happiness.”
Ode asked Andre for a spontaneous list of six key [...]
