Dr. Judith Gerhart, CFP
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst 
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Divorce Over the Age of Fifty - How Do You Survive?
August 13, 2008
Make friends with like-minded people like yourself. Going it alone can be a daunting experience if you have been together for a long time. Wheather you wanted the divorce or not it could be difficult getting used to being on your own. If your companion was your ex-companion then you may find that your social life may suffer. There are many services that you can use to find and make friends. Check out your local newspaper and look in the classified sections for local groups and clubs ner you. The Internet is another source of information to locate information about meeting points. You could also use Online Dating to find your perfect match.
Look at who you are: You may have been consumed by married life and forgot the person you are. It is easy to forget the person you were before you were married. You may have even accepted how married life moulded you. Take it step by step and write down the things you like and dislike. Ask yourself - what makes you motivated - what makes you tick - Spend some time away from home at probably a friend’s house for a few days. This may help you work out the things you take and or took for granted when you were married. Your friend may see certain traits in you that are unnacceptable or acceptable. If it is a true friend then there should be no problem telling you certain house ground rules allowed.
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