Dr. Judith Gerhart, CFP
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst 
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Divorce Recovery - Over 50
August 15, 2008
Keep in touch with your children: The effects of divorce can have a big impact on the children. Some children take sides with a parent leaving another rejected. If your life revolved around the children, but the relationship became broken as a result of divorce, consider rebuilding. There is nothing to take away the joys and challenges of bringing up children. This is what you have as a foundation for building a successful relationship with your children. Don’t forget the birthday cards and other celebrations that you had when you were children. No matter the age of the children never fail to show your child that you still love them. Remember, your children are a product of you and in the sense your personality by them
Get busey and be occupied: Find thngs to do to keep your mind occupied. Life after divorce could indeed weigh you down to say the least. Work up some energy to keep yourself busey rather than moping around and feeling sorry for yourself. Be strong and recourseful as opposed to being sad and miserable. You will be amazed how you could get through divorce by being busey and occupying yourself around other people. Taking your mind off of yourself will help you clear your mind. Of course, the problem does not necessarily go away but atleast it will get you through it.
These are just some of the key steps to get you started on the road to recovery from divorce. No one ever said divorce was easy because if you can imagine a way of lif for years then it ends. People have to find ways of overcoming the effects of change on their lives. Make use of this article and make sure you check out the lovestraffic relationships site for useful readings.
By Tony Peters www.lovestraffic.com/Relationships
Posted by Judith Gerhart on August 15, 2008 | Permalink | Post a comment
Topics: Divorce, Post Divorce, Tips |
August 18th, 2008 at 8:57 am
You may be interested in an article I have recently written:
http://lifeafterdivorce.wordpress.com/2008/07/29/divorcing-at-50-five-steps-to-recovery/
Annie