The Confident Shall Inherit the Earth. And more.
Monday, July 7th, 2008
Today it is important to understand money, and not just how to invest it. After all, you’re the controller here. You need to be able to direct your resource team, not with the expertise of financial professional, but with the expertise and confidence of someone that feels worthy.
Worthiness and money make for an interesting pairing. [...]
Look For Fear Behind Other People’s Attempts to Control You
Friday, June 27th, 2008
Instead of getting irritated with someone who tries to control you, try to understand the fear that motivates that person’s behaviour. If you can soothe those fears, the control will diminish. Yet you may have to rely on your own insight and intuition, because controllers seldom know the fears that motivate them.
In fact, if you [...]
Questions to ask Yourself: Money and Marriage
Friday, June 20th, 2008
Questions to ask yourself about money and marriage
* How often in your marriage did fear control you?
* How often did you let your husband control you, by your trying to be compassionate?
* Did you use the compassionate excuse to avoid having to deal with issues around money?
* Do you feel that you were compassionate - [...]
Dr. Judith Gerhart, CFP
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst 
